Hard work achieves goals

   To the editor:
    Oh, how our goals have changed over time. Not only do goals change as we age, goals change as our society ages. Goals in the 1900s differ from goals of today. Our goals as children differ from our goals as adults. Goals are never the same, but we must always have a purpose. So I start this essay by asking you — What are your goals?     Before I continue this discussion, I have to share an observation that troubles me in today’s Internet society. There is confusion between instant gratification and goals. With a click of the mouse, we obtain things instantaneously, but do we really achieve our goals? One must work hard to achieve meaningful goals. One must earn one’s goals.
    As children, our goals are “simple.” But, are they really simple? Children want to be loved, happy and safe. As parents, our goals must be their goals. We can and will achieve these goals only through time and hard work.
    As teenagers, our goals change. Identity and acceptance are now our goals. Who am I? Do I fit in? Values and morals will lead teens to their identity. Acceptance should be accomplished without compromising these values. Work hard and stay true, and these goals will be achieved. Excelling in school must be a top priority. High score on an algebra test, not on a video game, should be the goal. Success in school will lead to success in life.
    As adults, the goals change again. Financial security, caring for and protecting the family become the new goals. We must work hard at our jobs. We must work hard at being parents. Success takes time. Values and morals must still be upheld. Therefore, be patient, work with a purpose, and only then will we be able to achieve our goals. Always ask yourself on the way, are my actions getting me closer to my goals? If they are, then continue. If they are not, refocus your actions!
    Today, we live in a time of entitlement. People feel that they are entitled to their goals, instead of working hard for these goals. Goals are not instantaneous. Immediate gratification can’t be our goal. We must work hard and be patient. Set your goals and work toward them. Make sure you always have goals.
    So I ask you again — What are your goals?
Hassan Abouleish, M.D.
Houlton