Arlene Graves never believed this would happen to her – needing help – she had always been independent. Her weight started going down and she was losing fast. After having surgery and returning home, she hated to admit it to herself, but help was necessary.
Graves found the Aroostook R.S.V.P. to be what she needed at this time. Whether it was paying bills, getting her hair cut, having her picture taken for the cancer society, taking her cat (Knothead) to the veterinarian, going to the hospital for tests, or shopping, volunteers were able to assist her.
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HELPING HAND — Arlene Graves, left, gets a haircut from Kathy Bartley at Hairworks Studio in Houlton. Graves has been a recipient of assistance from RSVP after a recent bout with cancer.
One year ago, it was a broken shoulder, now cancer. But, she says she has been blessed.
“Dr. Santiago Duy was wonderful, I’m a survivor,” she says with gratitude.
There is a sound in her house that had been missing since she can’t remember when; it is the sound of her own laughter. That foreign sound is a beautiful sound, if you happen to be near her when it happens. It comes from deep within – life is a gift not to be taken for granted. She looks forward to the day when she can help others, but needs help herself right now. Aug. 9 marked the two-month anniversary of her surgery. She tried walking to County Yankee to get some milk. She was a little tired, but she made it.
Bonnie Pratt is the new R.S.V.P. coordinator for Southern Aroostook. Arlene Graves was her first referral. What a relief it was to hear Arlene say, “I’m okay, I just need a little help.” A few days later she had some good news to share – she had just found out she was cancer free.
Volunteers are a special group of people. Their willingness to help, and wanting to help make a difference, is a wonderful combination in these people. Volunteering is healthy and productive, besides rewarding. The group is now looking for baby boomers (1946 – 1964) to sign on as volunteers. Your time and concern is needed. For more information call 1-800-439-1789, the R.S.V.P. office or Bonnie Pratt at 757-8355.